The search for the perfect dildo: Size really does matter

Consider whether you prefer a realistic or non-realistic design. Intended to be worn with a harness, strap-on dildos enable hands-free penetration, making them ideal for couples looking to explore role reversal or same-sex encounters. The main concern is using a dildo made of toxic, unsafe materials. There are tons of cheap toys out there made from TPR, TPE, latex, PVC Inflatable Dildos, or jelly materials that are either porous (can harbor bacteria) or downright toxic (can leech chemicals into your body). Don’t just surprise your SO with a new sex toy – involve them in the process. There’s no guarantee they’ll be ready to experiment with sex toys , and they should be a part of the buying process to ensure you both get a toy you’ll be happy with.

With a strap-on dildo, you can switch up roles and explore new dynamics in the bedroom. The main issue with the Mustang is, however, its lack of a real suction cup base. It won’t stick to the shower wall or other smooth surfaces for hands-free riding in the same way a suction cup dildo does. As a sex toy expert who likes to think of herself as a dildo connoisseur, I’m the perfect person to write this review.

Most have a slightly curved shape that enables them to rest on your vulva hands-free when you’re lying down, Wright says. Since they have a larger surface area than some other toys, they can diffuse sensations across the vulva, beyond the clit. If your search for the best sex toy is feeling like an Easter egg hunt, let us point you to Je Joue’s ILY Pebble. While it’s the size and shape of a skipping stone, the aptly named Pebble is anything but rock-hard—instead, it’s made of ultra-squishy silicone.

At DearRabbits, we love our fun, outside-the-box dildos – don’t get us wrong. But sometimes, there’s nothing better than a realistic dildo to get you going. Each soft realistic dildo for sale has an ultra-lifelike appearance and realistic details that could fool even the sharpest of senses. Just like a real penis, some of our silicone penis products even come with squeezable realistic balls for an added level of realism. Our wide selection of life-like dildos features vibrating dildos, strap on dildos, squirters, suction cup base dildos and more.

I’ve tried a similar metal dildo, the Le Wand Hoop, and I can only confirm that the feeling takes penetration to a whole new level. For more, visit our Sexual Wellness section, where we unpack topics around consent, kink, sex toys, and more so you can have your safest and very best sexperiences yet. This dildo is, of course, designed to be beautiful, and reviewers love it, writing that it’s a gorgeous display piece.

If you haven’t used dildos before, you should start slow and insert gradually at your own pace. When it feels good, try experimenting with different angles and movements, and always keep a water-based lubricant on hand for the best experience. If you’re more into soft models, try a silicone dildo that feels both natural and flexible. They are made from medical-grade silicone with an ergonomic shape that makes them extra comfortable to play with.

Thanks to an easy-to-hold, non-vibrating handle, you’ll be able to easily explore the pleasure-potential of your anus while you masturbate on your back. Our testers love the variety of vibration patterns and intensity to really customize your play. Take this one from NS Novelties, which is made with a silicone shaft that feels similar to skin. Plus its life-like veins add extra sensation, and its suction cup base is especially useful for solo play. For those wanting a more lifelike feel, realistic dildos hit the mark perfectly. Detailed designs, various sizes, multiple skin tones—they’re as close as you get without an actual partner.