How to Use a Dildo Solo or With a Partner

It’s for those who know that they like deep penetration and g-spot massage, and are looking for their first every dildo to use solo (or to share with a partner). Having tried a Tantus dildo myself (the Tantus Cush), I know that they always deliver on high-quality silicone and generally feel very comfortable to use. The Charmer is no exception—it feels soft, body-safe, and just really nice to use.

Our collection of sex toys for her includes dildos, vibrators , bondage gear, and anal toys for pure pleasure inside and out. Your needs and your body will be different from others when using toys, though. Whether you want to find the best vibrator you can buy or something to start off your collection, we’ve ranked our favourites according to their best features.

You also get to enjoy a realistic feel, powerful thrusting sensations, and different vibration modes that will do the trick. For those on the quest for the best vibrating dildo tailored for men, the Girthy vibrator is hard to overlook. Its lifelike design combined with potent vibrations transforms fantasies into tangible experiences.

Or buy a colorful, whimsical dildo to show off your personality. Plain and simple, sex toys (especially ones that show love to your clitoris) can do things that penetrative sex alone can’t. Not to mention Dildos, there are proven mental and sexual health benefits to getting your O, which a good sex toy can all but guarantee. In 2021, there was a study that found subjects who were sexually active (yes, solo play counts as “active”) experienced less anxiety and depression.

And silicone comes in many different densities and levels of firmness. This is rated on what’s known as the Shore Scale (there’s 3 separate scales, actually). You expressly agree that your connected toys or devices may be remotely controlled by other participants as part of the event’s interactive experience. A dildo with a bulbous head gives you a nice stretch as it enters, but it also massages the prostate more effectively.

When you wish to change the speed or turn off the vibration, use the remote. The remote is great for partner play or to adjust the settings without taking out the toy. Next, there is this dildo, which continues with the trend of vibrator P-spot stimulators.

Fleshlight recreated every bump, ridge, and vein perfectly, and if you’re a fan of the celebrated adult film star, you’ll love the feel-good factor right away. I loved how realistic it felt in the mouth and inside my vagina. Something I wanted to verify is if I could feel the skin on the shaft moving when thrusting it in and out, which I could clearly feel (wow!). I used the Dirk model (there are five others), and the 2″ diameter gave it some heavy presence – it was an exciting and filling experience. Just like you want to use lube to ease insertion with an actual dildo, the same is recommended for any item around the house, especially if it’s going to cause you to stretch. You can buy water-based or silicone lubes from most Walgreen’s.